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5 Ways To Motivate Yourself When You Feel Demotivated

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5 Ways To Motivate Yourself When You Feel Demotivated

Let’s admit it. Life is not a fairy tale. We all have our days when nothing seems to work out or you just feel blah all day. Be it heading to the gym, preparing for a meeting or an exam, cooking or just getting up from bed, you simply don’t feel like doing anything. That my friend is not procrastination or mood swings at work. We call it being demotivated.

To be honest, being demotivated is quite dangerous. It just arrives as a roadblock and stalls any progress that you intend to make in your work. Sometimes, even the things you love to do turn out to be boring or dull. Remember that at that time, you need to fight and outgrow it because it will make you complacent. People often confuse being demotivated with getting bored, but in actual fact, it is a less dreadful counterpart of the feeling of demotivation. The aspect of demotivation I discuss below is more like a parasite that will feed on you and see you sulk.

Over the years, I’ve tried various methods to fight this feeling out of my mind and complete what I intended to do. Every time I was successful in doing it I wrote down how I overcame demotivation, and this article is a compilation of all the tried and tested methods that have worked for me. Hope they help. I know they will.

Understand The Reason For Demotivation

One of the first things to do when you feel down or demotivated to do something is to sit down and think about why you feel that way. This feeling doesn’t kick in without a reason and there could be a subconscious reason driving it. You may be feeling demotivated because of fear – perhaps something is stopping you from going any further in your way. For instance, writers often feel demotivated because they fear acceptance. Before they finish their book, they tend to think of the consequences of it, like publications not accepting their manuscripts, rejection from readers or the public. The reasons behind your demotivation has to be addressed and you can only do this by confronting it. You might also feel demotivated because of setting up wrong or unattainable goals, because of conflicts, or due to lack of challenges in your way. Whatever it is, confront it and get clarity. This will help you perpetually feel motivated until you finish your task.

Call Up Your Guardian Angel

By guardian angel, I mean your first circle of contacts or someone you’re really close to. It could be your best friend, who is always there for you, your well-wisher who gives you the best pieces of advice, your spouse, or your mom. I generally call up my mom and simply talk for 10 minutes, without even mentioning my demotivation to work. Eight minutes into the call, I’m enthusiastic as never before. I read that talking to people you’re close with immediately releases some chemicals that instantly rejuvenate your mind and make you feel better. Come on, you don’t need science to know how good it feels to talk with family! Call them up next time.

Take A Power Nap

When in trouble, sleep. I used to think that this was just something people used to say until I actually tried it. It worked. The one time I was really demotivated to finish up a long-pending assignment, I decided to take a power nap for 45 minutes and when I woke up, I was feeling fresh and all motivated. I had completed my work faster than I imagined I would and since then this has been my second remedy.

Do Not Seek Solace On Your Smartphone

I repeat, do not seek solace to demotivation on your smartphone. They are causing enough depression in our subconscious minds, and if you look at it when you’re low, you’ll end up feeling worse. Without getting into a debate, I simply suggest you keep away from your phone so that you don’t use social media or YouTube because they tend to further slow down your thought process. At this time, you need something that will charge you up, rather than sitting in one place scrolling through your phone. 

Go For A Walk

There’s nothing as refreshing as a walk. Go to places where you’ll find plenty of people, like a mall, complex, station, coffee shops or other places. You’ll realize that the world appears to have slowed down only to you. People are fast approaching towards their destinations and everyone’s busy with their own tasks. You’ll find people in formals waiting for that bus that will take them to their interview spot, business people finalising deals on their phone, the police sweating it out under the sun, plus many others passing by. By walking you’ll feel refreshed in no time and realize that you’ve wasted enough time already being demotivated.

Conclusion

Motivation is the key to all your creativity, aspirations, goals, purpose and all good things, and the moment this feeling seeps in, everything will fall into place. Though it’s impossible to remain motivated all the time, it’s crucial that you don’t fall prey to demotivation too. Sometimes, you just need a kick in life to get you going and these are some of the ways that will deliver it to you. Trust me, it’s okay to feel demotivated. What is not okay is to sulk over it. Get going! Take action.

 

Harsh Yadav is a computer engineer turned blogger, who is running a self-development blog (GoFameus.com), which is working towards unwinding the complex wisdom and serving it to you, not just in an easy to understand way, but also in a creative and gripping way. In his spare time, he loves to read self-help books and inspirational quotes. His never-ending “self-help” love affair which filled him with so much positivity and self-belief is continually growing.

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How To Achieve Success?

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How To Achieve Success?

Success can be defined in many ways; it can be happiness for one person and wealth for another. It can be peace for one and respect for another. Everyone can define success in their own way, but in general, it is a feeling of satisfaction and happiness. 

Throughout life, we have a hunger to achieve greatness. The more we achieve the better life becomes. There are plenty of opportunities in this world. If you have a dream to succeed and achieve something special in this life, you need to put in the work, because without action, nothing is possible. The majority of people only dream to succeed, while a small minority work hard to achieve their dreams. To attain success, you need to sacrifice many things, this is how the successful people in this world achieved their greatness.

We need to understand how to achieve success. To do this, we need to break down what success means. The best way to do this is by understanding and analyzing successful people. Successful people in this world emulated and followed the footsteps of other successful people. For example, there is a pattern with successful people. Many successful people wake up early. They spend their time wisely throughout the day, reading and gaining knowledge. This is key to success, while keeping a good balance in life is also vital in achieving success. 

Quotes On Success

“Success is walking from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.” Winston Churchill

“If you really look closely, most overnight successes took a long time.” Steve Jobs

“The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.” Walt Disney

“The successful warrior is the average man, with laser-like focus.” Bruce Lee

“If you really want to do something, you’ll find a way. If you don’t, you’ll find an excuse.” Jim Rohn

5 Great Pointers On Achieving Success 

Follow Your Passion

Success does not come overnight, it takes a lot of hard work and passion to reach the desired goal and dream. It requires strong dedication, hard work, constant improvement, and sometimes luck. If you are not doing what you love, then you are bound to give up and fail. Only those who have a great passion for something they love, will continue, and strive hard to move on and achieve greatness. It should be something you are willing to sacrifice and dedicate your life to. Every day, every week, and every hour of the day should be dedicated to achieving your goals and dreams. 

Find The Correct Balance

Life is all about finding the right balance. When you find the right balance, only then will you see success around you and within you. Balance your time, spend time with your family and friends. Allocate time to achieving your goals and targets. Look after your health, exercise, and eat well. Life is all about finding a balance. Do not sacrifice one thing for another. It is important to find the right balance in life.  

Establish A Routine

Routines are vital when you are trying to succeed. We are taught from a young age the importance of keeping a good routine in life because without a routine you will be a mess and it will become harder for you to do well in achieving your goals and targets. For example, people who have a job, working for a company, these companies have strict routines in place. The reason for this is so that the company performs well and becomes more successful. Even in our daily lives, without routine we will be all over the place. It is proven that a person who has no routine in life, is a person who is very lazy, a time waster and someone who has no goals and ambition in life. Therefore, we should strive to have good routines in our life, as this will lead us to have a better life. 

Learn From Your Mistakes

Successful people have failed many times. It is inevitable unless you are an extremely lucky person, where everything works out for you. But, when starting off, the first few steps are the hardest. Many people who have achieved great things have failed on many occasions. There are many obstacles in front of you that blocks you from reaching the next stage of success. For example, there are many entrepreneurs who have failed in many businesses, until that one business that has made them successful. Without failures and mistakes, we as humans will never learn, therefore make as many mistakes as you can, as these mistakes will lead you to gain more experience and knowledge in achieving your goals and dreams. 

Find Support And Resources

Find yourself a mentor, you need someone who can point you in the right direction to achieve greatness. With the correct help and support, you can achieve even better than you would do by yourself. If a mentor is not available, try reaching out to others in your field. Find people who have already achieved what you plan to achieve, and try and get as much information from them as possible so that you can reach that level of success one day. Networking is important to become successful and bigger in what you are trying to accomplish. Reaching out to people will allow you to grow further. It will allow you to find out information that you did not even know you needed. Therefore, speaking out and finding the right support and resources will push you to the next level. 

Summary

To summarize, to achieve success, you must be wise and bold. A person who does not try and is lazy in life will go nowhere. You cannot just dream and expect everything to fall perfectly in front of you. You must work hard to get results. We should analyze those who have achieved greatness, by following in their footsteps. Only then can we crawl, walk, and then achieve our own success. Remember, success does not come overnight, it begins with baby steps, and when you are established, you will see the greatest successes. 

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How To Switch To Self-Love – Your Secret SuperPower

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How To Switch To Self-Love - Your Secret SuperPower

How To Switch To Self-Love – Your Secret SuperPower from Ralph Smart of Infinite Waters (Diving Deep). This was an excellent talk about the importance of self-love and it’s relevance to success. Take this information and implement it so that you can live life a life of self-love.

1. Self-love is the secret gateway to becoming your greatest version.

2. Without self-love you won’t go far.

3. Self-love has changed my life in a phenomenal way. It’s helped me connect with millions of people living infinite abundance.

4. And there was a time when I didn’t love myself, look, nobody teaches us how to love ourselves, why it’s important to love ourselves, what are the benefits of loving yourself. No, they don’t teach you that, that’s why a lot of us are really confused.

5. Practicing the art of self-love is a lifelong process. I mean every single day.

6. And it starts with this, stop caring what other people think.

7. We want to be accepted so therefore we spend our whole entire lives trying to conform to other people’s standards instead of creating our own.

8. Other people’s beauty standards. Their body standards – I want to look like that Ralph, it’s not fair.

9. So, what helped me along my journey was to stop trying to live by other people’s standards.

10. Instead, I had to learn how to live by my own standards and you do this simply by surrendering, it’s not about competing – I want to be like them, that’s a disrespect towards yourself.

11. You want to become your greatest version, your, not me, for you. Do it for you. Right, and it’s such a weight off your shoulders.

12. I just started to realize I’ve got to start creating my own standards. Living in my own standards of beauty. Accepting my body how it is, the shape of my face. I love it all. And that’s how to begin to love yourself.

13. Stop trying to fit in when you were born to stand out.

14. Ok, how many weird people do you know? That is how to switch to self-love. Weird people aren’t weird, that’s just what we call them. Weird people are unique. That’s why they stand out.

15. And have you ever noticed that when you find someone who is very unique, it almost allows you to be yourself? You feel comfortable around them because you’re like they’re so weird well I’m going to be weird anyway. Then you fall into the true authentic you.

16. Spend time with unique people who don’t care about copying other people, they are original, they love who they are 100%. And I do it all the time, I meet a lot of very very weird people every single day, well, I’m Diving Deep and it’s beautiful.

17. I have to always honor my uniqueness. You won’t find another Infinite Waters, if you do, they’re a clone.

18. When we talk of Self-love, I’ve realized this that you’ve got to go to the place where you find your greatest power, that’s what helped me along my journey.

19. I realized, for a long time I was living a very very harmful lifestyle because I wasn’t practicing self-love, I wasn’t doing what I love every single day, I was in the wrong environment, the wrong friends, I was following the wrong crowd. If you’re doing all of that it’s going to be very hard to love yourself

20. But when you go to the place where you find your greatest power. Skate every day like me. You’re in the seat of your power, you are in the throne. Whether you be a makeup artist or scientist, you do that every single day, go into the lab, you are in the seat of your power. That’s how to practice the art of self-love.

21. You go to the place of your greatest empowerment every single day. I’m always in nature. I’m in the art gallery. I’m doing what I love. I get to wake up and do whatever I want and live in infinite abundance. You think I’m complaining?

22. You can’t love other people until you love yourself. And not caring what other people think is the greatest form of self-love.

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5 Powerful Things Successful People Do Differently

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5 Powerful Things Successful People Do Differently

Many people believe that a successful life is just a matter of luck, and leave everything to their destiny to decide whether or not they will be successful.

On the other hand, what many people are unaware of is that successful people have certain habits that separate them from ordinary people.

These people are more aware of their strengths and weaknesses. They are self-conscious and know how to turn a losing moment into a winning moment. They are motivated, disciplined and consistent. Above all, they are not made through just a matter of luck.

Here are five powerful things successful people do differently.

1. Turn Their Passion Into A Full-Time Profession

It’s obvious that if you are doing the things that you don’t love you soon get fed up with your work and fail to give your maximum at your workplace. You will be less focused, procrastinate more, feel tired, make more excuses and hence your input will reflect your output.

Successful people do what they love. They give priority to their interests over wealth or respect. Almost all the artists, sportspersons and entrepreneurs are underpaid at first. No matter how bad the circumstances, they worked consistently and devoted their heart and soul into their work. They looked for ways to increase their revenue and transformed their passion into a full-time profession.

If you want to be successful, give priority to your passion and think of ways to make it your full-time job. Then you will be happier and have a more meaningful life.

2. Setting Priorities

Millions of people fail every year not because they do not have aspirations but because they fail to set priorities. They try to do a lot of things at once, rather than focusing on one important task. They are brilliant at achieving not-so-important goals, and poor at reflecting on the necessary task.

Successful people think otherwise. They cut-off all the distractions and pick the toughest task first. They work outside their comfort zone to complete the difficult tasks.

3. Continuously Reinforce The Foundation

Every profession has some key skills which form the foundation. If the skills are not harnessed continuously, it will affect your whole business career. Successful people are smart enough to find the key skills of their profession and spend the maximum amount of time and money in developing those areas.

They read books, attend seminars, and meet like-minded people. Some top performers also hire a coach to become exceptionally good at what they love to do.

To get the maximum output you can follow the 3% rule of investment. The rule says that if you spend 3% of your income in self-education, you will see yourself outperforming 90% of the people around you.

4. Goal Setting

Everyone talks about goal setting. Why is it so? Because it’s a roadmap. If you do not know how to reach your destination then most certainly you will never be able to reach it. Goal setting works as a roadmap to success, and it’s the common trait that all successful people follow. Here are the phenomenal benefits of goal setting.

  • You’ll have a clear vision on what to do today, tomorrow, and next month if you already know about your destination in detail.
  • Clarity in decision-making abilities.
  • You will start finding new ways to reach your goals in the minimum amount of time and money.
  • Studies have shown that reviewing your goals every day improves motivation in an unexpected way.
  • People who have goals have a high self-image of themselves. High self-image results in increased productivity and confidence.
  • Goal setting leads to a more meaningful life.

5. Dealing With Uncertain Moments

Where people are afraid of taking risks, successful people not only take risks but also develop their risk-taking muscle within themselves so that they can fight against the uncertain moments (fight or flight).

A successful life is not determined through massive luck but through the courage to take big risks. Challenges and opportunities come along with a certain amount of risk.

While ordinary people avoid risk due to ‘fear of failure‘, successful people continuously overcome one uncertain moment after another to achieve personal and professional excellence.

Conclusion

The biggest enemy or obstacle on your path to success is a negative mindset or the perception that you need to be born into wealth, and extremely lucky. Well, that is not the case. Most successful people are not born into wealth or born lucky. They tried new things, made mistakes, learned and made their way through the journey to success.

If you want to be successful, make sure that you are doing what you love, setting priorities and removing clutter and distractions from your everyday life, enhancing your key skills, setting clear and in-detailed goals, taking risks and dealing with uncertain moments with a positive mindset.

What’s your mindset towards a successful life? Share your views in the comments below.

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