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Are Your Dreams Really Yours?



Are Your Dreams Really Yours?

Following your dreams is one of the secrets of living a happy life. This is a life path that you will never regret choosing. However, you can see that many people are not happy today, even though they claim that they have opted for the career they are in all by themselves. This is where we get to the point of asking this crucial question: are your dreams really your dreams? On the other hand, do you just think they are but in reality, you are living the dreams of your friends or family?

It happens very often that our friends, families or sometimes teachers make us think that our dreams are silly and unworthy, while what they want us to do in life is the only way to live a meaningful life and be happy. Nevertheless, you should really make this choice all by yourself and try your best not to be influenced by those around you to follow a path that will lead you to live in a state of self-betrayal. 

As discussed in “How to find a job after your own heart” there are a few questions you should ask yourself before you choose your career path. Among these questions are your biggest passions, your values you want to stick to, the message you want to share with the world, and what people around you think you should do. This point can be tricky, so we want to mention that you should take their thoughts into account but follow your own heart when making a decision. And there are many reasons to do this. Let’s have a look at them below.

Reasons To Follow Your Own Dreams:

1. You Will Be Happier

The first and most obvious reason to follow your dreams are because you will be happier this way. Doing what you love and loving what you do is the secret for career success of real professionals. DO not give up your dreams and do not replace them with what people around you claim to be a better version of your aspirations and passions.

2. You Will Persevere 

The second reason to stick to your dreams is that this way you are less likely to give up. Knowing that the career you have chosen is the one you picked, you will keep on working even when the hard times come. In case the job you have now is not really your choice you won’t be struggling too hard to get through, so you will easily give up. And that is not what you want to come to!

3. Prove Others Wrong

The fact that you are following a dream despite expectations of those around you is almost a rebellion. And who does not like to prove people around them wrong? On the contrary, for some folks, this can be a real challenge and motivation to keep up the good work.

4. Have No Regrets 

Bear in mind that when you grow older you will not feel sorry about your life which you dedicated to doing what you believed in. You will never tell your grandchildren how you spent eight hours a day in an office every day doing things that you absolutely hated. No, you will share those moments that you treasure the most and are proud of being a part of.

5. Be A Leader 

Moreover, people will remember you for doing something with immense passion. They won’t remember your mediocre performance in the office, but rather will look up to you when you overcome difficulties to pursue your dreams.

6. Live With A Sense Of Adventure

You can never predict what will happen to you on your way to your dreams. But this is what makes your life exciting. Meeting struggles and dealing with unexpected turns of events is a thrilling experience you will remember for a long time. Therefore, take jobs after your own heart to stay on track and never get bored with your life.

7. Open Your Life Up To More Opportunities 

Some people stated that they followed their dreams to see what other opportunities life has in store for them. Being the first one to choose this path or just being a dreamer will open more doors for you.

8. Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone

This way you will no longer live in a comfort zone. You will have to meet your fears and deals with them. You will need to deal with challenges that will happen on your way. You will be forced to live with uncertainty. But it is all worth living your own dream after all.

9. Stand Out From The Crowd

You will stand out from the crowd. Do you know many people who live the life they always wanted to? I mean, pursuing dreams make you stand out, and that is how you will become interesting and unusual.

10. Get To Know Yourself Better

Being pushed to your limits when dealing with difficulties, you will gain a better understanding of yourself, your hidden fears, strengths, weaknesses, and potential you did not know was there. This is why you should choose your own dreams to follow.

11. Personal Development

Finally, you will be pushed to keep on learning and developing yourself. To become a success in the job you have chosen you will need to learn new things and obtain a better understanding of the subject all the time. Therefore, to be good at doing what you love, you will have to continually learn and seek personal and professional development.

As you have seen from this list, following your own dreams is way better than doing what other people expect you to do. You won’t be able to grow as much when doing what your parents want you to do, as when you pursue your deepest passions. To understand what you dream job is, you can check out the article we mentioned above – “How to find a job after your own heart.” It provides profound questions that will help you realize what your dream is and how to make sure you are on your way to it. Use our tips to ensure you know what you want to dedicate your life to.

Good luck!


Lori Wade is a tutor and a freelance/content writer for who is interested in education, blogging and sharing her ideas. She has a degree in Journalism and is a frequent contributor to several publications and websites. You can connect with her on Twitter, Google+, and other social media platforms.

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