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Are Your Dreams Really Yours?

Are Your Dreams Really Yours?

Following your dreams is one of the secrets of living a happy life. This is a life path that you will never regret choosing. However, you can see that many people are not happy today, even though they claim that they have opted for the career they are in all by themselves. This is where we get to the point of asking this crucial question: are your dreams really your dreams? On the other hand, do you just think they are but in reality, you are living the dreams of your friends or family?

It happens very often that our friends, families or sometimes teachers make us think that our dreams are silly and unworthy, while what they want us to do in life is the only way to live a meaningful life and be happy. Nevertheless, you should really make this choice all by yourself and try your best not to be influenced by those around you to follow a path that will lead you to live in a state of self-betrayal. 

As discussed in “How to find a job after your own heart” there are a few questions you should ask yourself before you choose your career path. Among these questions are your biggest passions, your values you want to stick to, the message you want to share with the world, and what people around you think you should do. This point can be tricky, so we want to mention that you should take their thoughts into account but follow your own heart when making a decision. And there are many reasons to do this. Let’s have a look at them below.

Reasons To Follow Your Own Dreams:

1. You Will Be Happier

The first and most obvious reason to follow your dreams are because you will be happier this way. Doing what you love and loving what you do is the secret for career success of real professionals. DO not give up your dreams and do not replace them with what people around you claim to be a better version of your aspirations and passions.

2. You Will Persevere 

The second reason to stick to your dreams is that this way you are less likely to give up. Knowing that the career you have chosen is the one you picked, you will keep on working even when the hard times come. In case the job you have now is not really your choice you won’t be struggling too hard to get through, so you will easily give up. And that is not what you want to come to!

3. Prove Others Wrong

The fact that you are following a dream despite expectations of those around you is almost a rebellion. And who does not like to prove people around them wrong? On the contrary, for some folks, this can be a real challenge and motivation to keep up the good work.

4. Have No Regrets 

Bear in mind that when you grow older you will not feel sorry about your life which you dedicated to doing what you believed in. You will never tell your grandchildren how you spent eight hours a day in an office every day doing things that you absolutely hated. No, you will share those moments that you treasure the most and are proud of being a part of.

5. Be A Leader 

Moreover, people will remember you for doing something with immense passion. They won’t remember your mediocre performance in the office, but rather will look up to you when you overcome difficulties to pursue your dreams.

6. Live With A Sense Of Adventure

You can never predict what will happen to you on your way to your dreams. But this is what makes your life exciting. Meeting struggles and dealing with unexpected turns of events is a thrilling experience you will remember for a long time. Therefore, take jobs after your own heart to stay on track and never get bored with your life.

7. Open Your Life Up To More Opportunities 

Some people stated that they followed their dreams to see what other opportunities life has in store for them. Being the first one to choose this path or just being a dreamer will open more doors for you.

8. Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone

This way you will no longer live in a comfort zone. You will have to meet your fears and deals with them. You will need to deal with challenges that will happen on your way. You will be forced to live with uncertainty. But it is all worth living your own dream after all.

9. Stand Out From The Crowd

You will stand out from the crowd. Do you know many people who live the life they always wanted to? I mean, pursuing dreams make you stand out, and that is how you will become interesting and unusual.

10. Get To Know Yourself Better

Being pushed to your limits when dealing with difficulties, you will gain a better understanding of yourself, your hidden fears, strengths, weaknesses, and potential you did not know was there. This is why you should choose your own dreams to follow.

11. Personal Development

Finally, you will be pushed to keep on learning and developing yourself. To become a success in the job you have chosen you will need to learn new things and obtain a better understanding of the subject all the time. Therefore, to be good at doing what you love, you will have to continually learn and seek personal and professional development.

As you have seen from this list, following your own dreams is way better than doing what other people expect you to do. You won’t be able to grow as much when doing what your parents want you to do, as when you pursue your deepest passions. To understand what you dream job is, you can check out the article we mentioned above – “How to find a job after your own heart.” It provides profound questions that will help you realize what your dream is and how to make sure you are on your way to it. Use our tips to ensure you know what you want to dedicate your life to.

Good luck!

Lori Wade is a tutor and a freelance/content writer for who is interested in education, blogging and sharing her ideas. She has a degree in Journalism and is a frequent contributor to several publications and websites. You can connect with her on Twitter, Google+, and other social media platforms.

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Your Dreams



Your Dreams

Many get initiated into the life of mediocrity by following the normal path, they are told to be like everyone else and do what everyone else is doing, what nonsense this way of life is, just because the majority of people have accepted the conformist’s life it does not mean that you have to. Look around you, the majority of people are not aware that they can accomplish more and become more, that realization has not taken place within them. They have become so infiltrated by mediocrity that they think that it is acceptable to be a wage slave, living to pay their bills, living life for the dollar rather than for a greater purpose, with passion and on a mission to impact the world in a positive manner.

What are your dreams? What do you want to do with your life? And who do you want to be? Don’t just accept the life that you have fell into and be ok with living someone else’s dream, discover your own dreams and live it. Move in the direction of your dreams, focus on where you want to go, focus on how you want to live, and focus on who you need to become to make your dreams a reality.

We all have dreams deep within us that we would like to make come true, however, the fears and illusions of failure seem to overtake them and confine us to never trying to see what we are truly capable of achieving. Many believe the doubts and fears within them rather than having a firm conviction and belief that they can succeed. You have to change that sort of internal thinking, you have to become a believer in all that you do, see success, see accomplishment, see hard work, see discipline, see prosperity, see abundance, and see yourself doing what needs to be done. Believe and act as though success is your birthright. Always believe in the best outcome for your actions, be an optimist and act fearlessly on what you want. Action is what breeds confidence, confidence is what builds belief, belief is what motivates you to act.

Start to work on your own dreams, and design the life that you want to live based around who you are and who you want to be. It is your job to push yourself, no one is coming to save you, it is up to you to make things happen, you are responsible for your life.

Take ownership of your life, decide, plan, and begin, get started. Execution is the name of the game. You can build your dream life up day by day or you can build your prison of mediocrity, the choice is yours, the bricks of your dreams or mediocrity are laid with the daily habits that you engage in. You are the one who confines or elevates yourself, and you are the one who builds yourself up or causes your own destruction.

You have to believe in a greater future for yourself, you have to see yourself living the life of your dreams, and you have to take action. Action is what makes all the difference. Where you are is temporary, you will not be there for the rest of your life unless you choose to be.

Instill the belief deep within yourself that it’s possible for you to make your dreams a reality, it’s possible, say to yourself, ‘I CAN’. Go confidently in the direction of your dreams, and be the one you know you want to be. Awaken your mind up to the life that is congruent to you, listen to that voice within you that is trying to push you to be the best that you can be, listen to that voice that wants you to succeed, listen to that voice of hope, belief, ambition, prosperity, and abundance.

Be a leader in a world full of sheep, take charge of your life, steer your own course, and design the life of your dreams. Your dreams require no approval from others, be relentless in the pursuit of what you want.

How many more years are you going to put off living? How many more years are you going to continue to live someone else’s life? How many more years are you going to keep putting off what needs to be done? How many more years are you going to continue engaging in the daily habits that move you away from your dreams? And how many more years are you going to waste being someone you don’t want to be. We must let go of the person we don’t want to be in order to become who we can be. Life gets better when you get better, success is attracted to you by the individual that you become, your dreams become a reality when you become a dream liver. Live your dreams now, embrace the grind, focus your mind and live the life you are capable of living.


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Why Have People Stopped Dreaming?



Why Have People Stopped Dreaming?

Why have the majority of people stopped dreaming? Why have the majority of people just become content with the timid lives that they have stumbled into? Why have people stopped living? And why have people just given up on themselves?

The main factors that confine people to a life of cowardice seems to be a lack of belief within themselves and fear of the unknown. You have to believe in a greater future for yourself and see yourself achieving your goals, and you have to stop being afraid to take action. Fear is not real, it is just false negative assumptions that the mind tries to make you believe.

Stop living small, stop being afraid, live big and be fearless in the pursuit of what you truly want. You can live your whole life in a state of resignation to the life that you are in now or you can take responsibility for your life and make things happen. If you do not take any action you will never discover what you are truly capable of becoming and achieving. Living a cowards life is easy, take a good look around and see how everyone else is living. What is so hard in being like them? Afraid to move, afraid to take action on their dreams, and afraid to be who they truly want to be. It takes nothing to join the crowd but it will take everything you got within you to stand alone.

Start to dream again, rekindle the desire within you that you once had growing up to live the life you imagined. Dream like you have never dreamed before. With the dream at the forefront of your mind take massive action in the direction you want to go. What are you waiting for? Are you waiting for another year to pass to get started? Are you waiting for the perfect time to get started on your dreams? That time will never arrive and you will get to the end and wonder what happened with all your dreams.

Take yourself forward in time ten years from now. Are you living your dream? Are you living life the way you want it to be? Or are you living a timid life confined to someone else’s life? What will your life look like if you continue to do what you are doing on a daily basis?

Do not do yourself a disservice by being afraid of what lies before you. There is something greater within you that is greater than any obstacle that you shall encounter. Believe in yourself, you have the capabilities to live the life you want to live. Be of service to the world, be the one to achieve your dream so that you can help others to stand up and take charge of their life, do away with the mediocre life, sacrifice for success, sacrifice for your dreams, and sacrifice for what matters most.

Let these words inspire you to go boldly in the direction of your dreams. Reignite the passion that is within you that must be brought forth so that you can live to your highest ideal.

See yourself as the person that you truly want to be, the superior version of yourself who is ambitious, driven, disciplined, focused, action-orientated and making your dreams a reality. People don’t do all that they can because they have sold themselves short within their mind that they are not good enough and they don’t have what it takes. But that is a lie, just like the 9-5 life. Success is a journey of growth, personal development, and action. The more you persist towards your dream with confidence, the stronger you will become in all areas of your life.

The world needs more people who have come alive rather than just living like sheep following the crowd. Dream like you have never dreamed before and take action to make your dreams a reality. The dream is real, believe in yourself, you have what it takes.

“All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.”

walt disney

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Respect Is For The One Who Is In The Arena Fighting For Their Dreams



Respect Is For The One Who Is In The Arena Fighting For Their Dreams

The aspirations to live life on your terms and to live to your full capabilities is more noble than just confining yourself to a life of mediocrity doing the same things day after day and being a sheep for the rest of your life. Respect is given to those who are in the arena battling for their dreams and who are striving to live life at a higher standard.

It is easy to be a critic who sits on the sidelines living life in a state of conformity confined to a timid existence because of your fears that have manifested in your imagination. Take a chance on yourself and find out what you love to do and get started on a new path, the path that resonates with who you truly want to be, do not just waste your life living a lie. It is easy to be average, it takes no effort to be like everyone else, it takes courage to be the person that you truly want to be. In a world that is trying to make you like everyone else have the audacity to be authentic and be the person that yearns to be brought forth from within. Listen to that still small voice within you that will lead you to your calling.

Be fearless, be hungry, be driven, be action-orientated, and be true to yourself. There is nothing worse than living a life that is well below your true potential because you did not make the time to develop yourself and invest in success. Personal development is crucial to success, as stated by Jim Rohn, “Income rarely exceeds personal development.” If you want to take your life to new heights you must develop yourself, as you will never rise to a new level by being the same. Invest in yourself, it is one of the best investments that you shall ever make.

Take a look around at the majority of people, they say they want success, they say they want more money, and they want to improve their situation, but they never seem to allocate time, money, and effort to those things that truly matter and will help move their life in a new direction. You need to study success, learn about financial freedom, and make changes in your daily life in order to see changes take place. Everyone wants more but they don’t do more of those things that make the difference. Don’t get stuck in a life of mediocrity doing what the mediocre people do on a daily basis, that is how you end up living a life of disappointment. Conformity is fatal, if you are not careful you will end up being average.

Those aspects that matter the most are not taught in school, such as success, discipline, time-management, financial freedom, goals, dreams, courage, fearlessness, grit, ambition, motivation, determination, drive and hunger to live life on your terms. You must make a determined effort to self-educate yourself, as your success is dependent upon you stepping it up to a new level, your success is your priority, no one else’s. You are the captain of the ship, you are at the helm, so take charge of your life today and take action so that you can rise above the crowd and go boldly to new terrain that seemed nothing but a distant mirage. Use your imagination to envision the life of your dreams and see yourself achieving your dreams within your minds eye, doing that will spur you on to take action, as everything is created twice, once in the mind and then in reality.

So waste no more time being among the crowd, the naysayers, the sheep, and the average folk who have resigned themselves to the life that they have stumbled into and don’t ever seem to want to do anything different but sit around complaining about their life. You have within you the strength, the power, the courage, the drive, and the potential to live a life of greatness. So rise up and take your life to wherever you want to go by going out into the world and doing all that you can truly do. No more of this mediocre living, be lead by the possibilities of what could be and be driven to be the best you as you are more capable than you know. If people would just believe in themselves and take action they would accomplish amazing things that will astound them.

Be bold, and be fearless and hunt down your goals, be the lion that never sleeps, be the hunter who does not rest until you catch the prey, be the one who makes it your mission to be of service in this world and leave a lasting impact of goodness for generations to come.

So I say to you, get into the arena of life rather than just watching others living life on their terms, get up and fight for what you truly want. The time is always right to chase your dreams and be the person that you have always wanted to be.


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